Growing up with Jane Austen's Emma

Emma by Jane Austen

published 1815

 

 


 

Earlier this year I wrote extensively about Jane Austen adaptations for the i newspaper – links in these posts. Taking my commission very seriously (and enjoying myself hugely) I watched literally dozens of JA films, TV series, and ‘modern updatings’. And I reread all her major works to give me a baseline to work from. I am not a purist about film adaptations (which annoyed some people commenting on my choices) but I thought it was important to know where they were all, ultimately, coming from.

In the past I always said Emma was my favourite, and I wondered if that would remain my first choice. And - yes it did. I was more impressed than ever by the cleverness, the charm, and the good-heartedness of the book. But there were some differences, reading it in later life.

I still love the casual jokes – the miserable old hypochondriac Mr Woodhouse asks his friend Mr Perry, the apothecary, if if it might be wiser NOT to eat the rich wedding cake. Mr Perry says yes, it might not be right for everyone.

There was a strange rumour in Highbury of all the little Perrys being seen with a slice of Mrs. Weston's wedding-cake in their hands: but Mr. Woodhouse would never believe it.

When the snow comes at Christmas time

Poor Mr. Woodhouse was silent from consternation; but every body else had something to say; every body was either surprized or not surprized.

For forty years that has always popped into my head whenever a group of people discuss a weather event. As true now as it was 40 years ago, and 200 years ago.

It’s often pointed out that Jane Austen does not do scenes where only men are talking. But that she thinks about it is always obvious, and there is this interestingly frank input from Mr Knightley, warning Emma about the hideous Mr Elton:

'…from his general way of talking in unreserved moments, when there are only men present, I am convinced that he does not mean to throw himself away.'

ie he will not be at all interested in Harriet.

Though in some areas Emma has no illusions about her protegee – when she thinks the acrostic is addressed to Harriet, and it mentions a ready wit, Emma thinks:

Humph-Harriet's ready wit! All the better. A man must be very much in love, indeed, to describe her so.

Emma is honest and real:

Why she did not like Jane Fairfax might be a difficult question to answer; Mr. Knightley had once told her it was because she saw in her the really accomplished young woman, which she wanted to be thought herself; and though the accusation had been eagerly refuted at the time, there were moments of self-examination in which her conscience could not quite acquit her.

And only Frank Churchill and the Bateses would prefer Jane Fairfax (cold, serious and willing to enter into an inappropriate engagement) to Emma.

Mind you, we can all feel for Jane F when people keep saying the wrong thing, going on and on about her morning walk. Austen does that so well, they are just being civil and conversational but we feel for Jane and her journey to the post office, and whenever it seems the conversation must turn, back it comes again.

There is the bleak cold ruthlessness of the comment when the truth about Harriet’s parentage is revealed:

The stain of illegitimacy, unbleached by nobility or wealth, would have been a stain indeed

And the surprising way that Harriet gets back together with Robert Martin – I can’t be the only reader who had no memory of that curious incident at all. Astley’s Circus! We might as well be in a Georgette Heyer book.

And there is always Mrs Elton’s criticism of Emma’s wedding to enjoy:

‘Very little white satin, very few lace veils; a most pitiful business!’

I had some new perceptions on this rereading. I think when I was younger I took Emma at her own valuation: lucky, blessed, happy, and:

I always deserve the best treatment, because I never put up with any other 

This time round I found her sadder, and lonely, and brave. I realized Emma is a book about motherless children – Emma, Harriet, Jane. (The men also, but it is less of an issue, though Frank’s situation is complex). It is glimpsed in the book in a moving way behind the humour and satire, beautifully done. None of them has a mother to tell her how to behave. All Jane Austen books - apart from Northanger Abbey - make you wonder a lot about Jane's relations with her own parents. 

Is it possible the main characters’ privileged lifestyle is not popular with the lower classes? Mozart’s opera the Marriage of Figaro, and the play it was based on, famously showed masters and servants, but was subversive and suggesting things should change, and that was nearly 30 years before. It sounds unlikely that Jane Austen is heading for that territory but she was too smart and thoughtful not ever to think about it. The turkey thieves at the end of the book (another aspect I had forgotten) are surely a sign that trouble is coming,

And the book even reminded me of Shakespeare’s King Lear: perhaps this is over-dramatic, but Emma’s fate if she hadn’t married Mr Knightley, was not promising, for all she thought having money would be enough. She could have ended up stuck playing backgammon with her father every night forever, like Cordelia’s prospect of being locked in a cell with her father:

‘We two alone will sing like birds i' th' cage….So we'll live,
And pray, and sing, and tell old tales, and laugh’

You just have time to think ‘well that’s all very well for you, mate, you’re old’, when something worse overtakes Cordelia.

Emma got off lightly, even though her living with her husband and father together is not that attractive a thought.

 


When I looked at adaptations of the books I mentioned the description of Emma’s response to Mr K’s proposal:

What did she say?-Just what she ought, of course. A lady always does

Saying, that’s all very well in a novel, but not going to work on film.

My favourite version was the 2007 TV serial with Romola Garai and Jonny Lee Miller. I thought writer Sandy Welch brought out Emma’s loneliness and Knightley’s awkwardness. Tamsin Greig was wonderful as Miss Bates, and to hear her drop her voice to a whisper on the word ‘gypsies’ is worth the price of admission.

The 2020 version with Anya Taylor-Joy is also good, and definitely draws attention to the thoughtless lifestyles of the rich. It looks as though it was shot in the Fortnum and Mason’s ice cream parlour, very aesthetically pleasing.

More on Emma in the blogpost on Sense and Sensibility.

Sitting with her cup of tea – NYPL fashion collection

Morning walking or carriage clothes - NYPL.

 

Comments

  1. I love this - you are saying several things I have long thought (and in fact, sometimes said or written) myself, such as the fact that it is very much a novel about motherless children. Surely one reason Jane and Frank fell for each other when they met at that seaside resort was their shared Highbury background and the fact that they had both been sent away from their childhood homes and families to live with other people? They somehow share the same forlornness and maybe the same feelings of being outsiders in high society.

    And I also want to stress Emma's admirable courage and good humour. She has a TERRIBLY lonely and boring life: has never been to school, has hardly been out of Highbury, has no mother, no sisters close to her in age, no friends her own age, has nothing to do, and when the only person who functioned as a companion to her leaves Hartfield to marry, what does Emma do? She looks around for another companion and makes do with Harriet because that is what is on offer. She deserves a medal, not blame.

    Also, she is not only better than I could ever be with her very trying father, she is also good with children and good to the poor. When I taught this book I sometimes asked my students what Emma would have been today and we usually ended up agreeing that she might have been a social worker or a GP - and a very good one at that: warm, practical and not fussy.

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    1. I'm so glad we're on the same page here - and I do love hearing about what you taught in your classes.
      Yes I agree with all you say, too - she gets blamed for the wrong things. Her notions of class and social importance are amusing, but her kindness is truly present.
      I'd love to hear others' take on the Miss Bates incident. of course Emma offended and upset Miss B, but she didn't burn down an orphanage, and she accepted the criticism and tried to make it right.

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    2. I find that there is an undercurrent of discomfort or sadness in all of Jane Austen's books even after the "happy endings." Not everyone is destined for a perfect marriage. What kind of a husband will Frank Churchill make? What will Miss Bates' life continue to be? Isabella and John Knightley never seem to be particularly devoted to each other. Is Emma going to enjoy a husband who is used to scolding her? She ends the novel as she began it, with Mrs. Weston as her only confidante. This is not a criticism of the book, I find it to be a strength, and I feel that it is a shortcoming of all the filmed versions that this tone does not survive.

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    3. Thank you - those are fascinating questions. Mr K does at least accept that he is quite hard on Emma, and I think there might be prospects for their joining together to make sure Mr Woodhouse doesn't spoil their lives. Many of the subsidiary characters have marriages that seem fairly grim - it is interesting to consider the prospects for the 'good' characters. As you say - there is so much nuance in JA.

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    4. IIRC, somewhere (in a letter or maybe family tradition as set down in the Austen-Leigh memoir) JA says that Mr Woodhouse only lives for two years or so after Emma’s marriage – which is surprising as he comes across as the kind of valetudinarian who takes such good care of himself, he’ll probably live to be 100. Perish the thought that either Emma or Mr Knightley might have hastened his end …

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    5. Well I'm happy for E and Mr K, but he is deffo the kind of hypochondriac who never dies. Love the idea of the hastening.... There are books of both JA and the Darcys as detectives, perhaps they could be sent in to investigate.

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  2. I think Emma's relationship with Harriet is more complex than just making do with whoever was available. She doesn't see Harriet as an equal, and has almost a Pygmalion-like attitude towards "improving" and "making a good match" for her. As Mr Knightley points out, Emma's experiment is not in Harriet's best interests. Of course Emma's well-intentioned and much more caring than Henry Higgins, but she's still getting Harriet used to a way of life which Harriet can never really aspire to. Emma's shocked reaction to Harriet's hopes regarding Knightley isn't based just on her own hopes of him, but also on her belief that he's literally out of Harriet's class. But who's responsible for Harriet's "acting above her station" but Emma herself? It's a good thing that Harriet is glad to go back to Mr Martin, or she might have felt she'd been led down the primrose path by Emma.

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    1. Well.. I think she is misguided - and mistaken about Harriet's background - but she was, as you say, well-intentioned. And between them she and Mr K put it right in the end. Slight diversions on the road to happiness for all of them

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    2. She was a good person in all, but definitely misguided, and with a little too high an opinion of herself and not quite enough thought for the effect of her actions on other people. (Typical teen?) How could she have been sure about Harriet's background--how much of her belief in Harriet's "gentle" origins was based on romantic imaginings? I still think the whole business was unfair to Harriet (and Mr Martin) and might have ended on a sour note in a different kind of book. Lucky for them that Austen did happy endings!

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    3. But surely every plot turn in every book is like that? People make decisions and the author follows the results, giving out rewards and punishments and claiming its fate...

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    4. Yes, but rewards and punishments vary by author. Austen didn't often leave important characters in dire straits. I think that Trollope, for instance, might have had a much gloomier fate for Harriet--look what he did to Phineas Finn's Lady Laura, who had much more going for her than Harriet did!

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    5. Indeed Lady Laura makes your blood run cold.
      But Harriet lives in JA, and ends up well, and I think Emma comes out of it perfectly fine.

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  3. I'm very much afraid that Emma is my least favorite Austen heroine (or at least in the bottom three). She needs a good shaking.

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    1. Fair enough - though bottom 3 covers quite a lot of her books. You'd better tell us your order of preference...

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  4. I love Emma for all the reasons that others have said. The best Emma film is Clueless. I disliked the 2020 one because at times it felt as if the director had never read the book - I'm thinking of the scene with the mountain of cakes being arranged by two footman. Emma's father was horrified by any sort of cake, and tried to persuade his guests to eat the same poor gruel he was eating. When the Bates came for tea, Emma has to make sure they get something nice to eat, in the way of seed cake or similar - not piles of cream cakes that look like they should be served at one of the Prince Regent's balls! I gather the director previously directed music videos and you can see that in this film - lots of close-up head shots framed by dramatic / moody / stylish backgrounds.

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    1. It was a very different take on the book, but I know I'm more inclined to give leeway than others do, with my firm opinion 'if you want authenticity, read the book'. I liked the vibe, and the look - I mentioned an ice-cream parlour. It also had a feel of being locked up in a box of Laduree macarons.

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    2. How about a "noir" take on the book, as a tragedy of errors instead of a comedy.

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    3. Did you see Andrew Davies wants to write something where Emma dies in childbirth?
      Jane Austen apparently used to tell her relations that 'Jane Fairfax died young'. I don't think Frnak was that good a bargain...

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    4. I saw the 2020 film and remember enjoying it a lot, though looking back, it’s mostly the negatives that have stayed with me (eg ridiculously palatial Donwell Abbey; Mr Woodhouse far too brisk and sprightly; casting of Harriet that makes nonsense of Emma’s claim that most men would gladly marry her for her looks alone; also it gave Robert Martin something of the awkward country-bumpkin aspect he specifically SHOULDN’T have). I shall track it down and re-watch to remind myself of what I liked.
      Frank’s one of my least favourite characters in JA: he has all the power in his relationship with Jane and he makes her life utterly miserable. If word gets out about the secret engagement and Mrs Churchill puts an end to it, he, as a man (and a rich man too, at least in prospect) will be able to shrug it off with minimal damage; Jane as a poor woman will be labelled deceitful and immoral and unfit to instruct the children of respectable people, and this could literally be a matter of life and death because she MUST earn a living – there are no safety nets for her. It’s unfortunate that she’s such a difficult character to warm to – and very hard to convey to a modern audience without knowledge of the period just how precarious her situation is. I’m not sure what the modern equivalent would be – Clueless got round this by omitting her altogether.

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    5. Those things dont worry me in a film adaptation, though I take your points.

      But, hard agree about Jane and Frank. She's stuck with him, he's awful. Frank is a very recognizable type: superficial charm and completely selfish and with an ability to make life very difficult for the woman in his life, though he 'doesn't mean to.' And as you say, the economics for Jane are very very serious indeed.

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    6. I have always thought that the relationship, or rather non-relationship, between Jane Fairfax and Emma rings perfectly true, and I can see several reasons for it. There is obviously some truth in Mr Knightley's suggestion that Emma feels uncomfortably inferior to Jane's accomplishments; and Emma's own explanation that it is annoying to have everyone expecting them to be friends because they are the only (educated) young girls of the same age in Highbury also rings true, as does her complaint that Jane is so cold and reserved. But added to that I think is a kind of embarrassment on Emma´s side about Jane's situation and an awareness that this is not fair. If our fates were decided by our virtues, Jane should not be worse off than Emma in any kind of way - if anything rather the contrary, in fact, which makes Emma's embarrassment border on guilt and makes her avoid Jane and the unpleasant feelings triggered by her. I can see that this would be a perfectly plausible reaction psychologically speaking (and Jane Austen was a BRILLIANT psychologist long before the word existed) however illogical it might be.

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    7. Great working out! yes, Emma's mixed feelings are very well done, and feel quite modern, and satisfying. It would be good to know more about what Jane (F) thinks of Emma...

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    8. I’m still pondering whether there is a modern parallel to Jane’s situation - the closest I can come up with is the woman whose married lover has assured her that of course he loves her and wants to marry her and of course he’s going to tell his wealthy wife he wants a divorce but he’ll have to pick the right moment … and the right moment doesn’t come and doesn’t come and Jane starts to realise that it might never come …

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    9. That's a very good parallel, Sovay, I think it would work very well.

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  5. That's fascinating about Jane Fairfax. I can see that I will have to reread Emma. Yes, I think that Emma is seen at her best with her father, so affectionate and patient. But she does nearly wreck Harriet's chances of matrimony, so vitally important to her future well-being. Yes, her comment on Miss Bates was cringe-making, but haven't we all at one time said/done the first thing that came into our head and regretted it later, especially when young? I find that more forgivable. Chrissie

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    1. Everyone makes mistakes in JA except for Fanny Price! And she is the heroine I dislike... We must set aside time for discussing Jane A when we meet....
      is it in Trollope's Dr Thorne that one girl's chances of matrimony are destroyed - a minor character, and reported quite unemotionally, but I remember it as sending a cold wave: trollope didn't have time to put it right or even go into it, he just mentioned it... I may have to reread. Perhaps commentator Trollopean remembers more detail.

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    2. I feel the same as Chrissie about the snarky remark to Miss Bates, certainly it was "badly done" but it did no harm to Miss B's way of life (such as it was). Mr Knightley strongly expressed his disappointment in Emma, but he didn't scold her the way he did when she had persuaded Harriet to refuse Martin's first offer. He told Emma that she was hurting Harriet's prospects, which seems a worse mistake than hurting someone's feelings in a rare moment of candor.

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    3. IRL I am quite firm with peope who are sorry for doing something ridiculous and say 'I meant well'. In books I am more forgiving. Context is all...

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    4. I agree that as a one-off careless remark, Emma's snarkiness is trivial - however a point Mr Knightley makes is that Emma is, in modern terms, an 'influencer' - if she's seen to belittle Miss Bates and treat her with contempt, others are likely to follow her lead, and in a small inward-looking community like Highbury that could affect Miss Bates' quality of life.

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    5. All that is true - but I still see it all as rather heavy-handed and over the top. Emma criticized Miss Bates for her behaviour, Mr K criticized Emma for her behaviour. Yes there are other considerations with Miss B, but I still can't see that one of these incidents is dreadful and the other a good and reasonable thing. Emma learned from her mistake: it's a pity Miss Bates doesn't learn from hers.

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    6. Fair enough - and Emma is normally very forbearing. The trip to Box Hill seems to bring out the worst in everyone.

      Sovay

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    7. This thread reminded me that “Clueless” is 30 years old - Cher would definitely be an influencer these days.

      Sovay

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    8. Isn't it amazing that we can still find so much to discuss in the book? There's a wonderful piece that the novelist Fay Weldon wrote - she had been listening to a serialization on Radio 4, and she was struck by the thought that during the relevant episode, there were people all over the country listening while they did the washing up or the ironing or cleaned the car, and they would all pause for a second and say to themselve 'oh Emma don't do it, don't say that to Miss Bates'. It's an image that has stuck with me for more than 30 years, I liked the idea very much.
      And now you come up with the shocking fact that Clueless is 30 years old! Astonishing... Presumably someone will do an updating of it soon.

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    9. The "influencer" angle would be a good basis for a current-day "Clueless"! Would Cher be glued to her smartphone and laptop?

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    10. Miss Bates might not be able to "change her spots" very easily at that point in her life, as opposed to a woman Emma's age. (I suspect Miss B wasn't as bright as Emma, either.)

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    11. A smart phone and social media seem so VERY Cher that it's hard to credit that they didn't exist then!
      Perhaps if someone had been sharper with Miss Bates earlier she would not have turned into such a terrible old bore, and her life would have been nicer (as well as the lives of those forced to listen to her)

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  6. Ann's point about seed cake - no one seems to make it now!

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    1. Yes how true! I remember it featuring in Enid Blyton and I thought it sounded delicious. But my now-husband told me that he dreaded visiting his granny because she gave him seed cake and he hated it.

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    3. Quite a while ago I made a seed cake from a recipe with caraway seeds. I didn't think it was anything special and can see that it might be an acquired taste. If it's even the same seed cake that everybody had for tea!

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    4. Does it resemble the one in the comment below?

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    5. It was so long ago, I can't remember enough about it to make any comparison! I did look at her recipe and thought the mixing method was unusual.

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    6. Yes, it was an unusual recipe. Interesting idea to go over old recipes...

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  7. I made this caraway seed cake from this hilarious web, The Past is a Foreign Pantry. Not bad, not good: I don't recommend it specially.

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    1. Ooops! The recipe: https://thepastisaforeignpantry.com/2020/04/22/seed-cake-1928/ Sorry!

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    2. What an interesting website!

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    3. she does a good job recommending the cake, but I'm not convinced.
      However, her website and style are excellent, I enjoyed very much. someone should give her a cookery show - she's hilarious, and I could just see her telling her stories onscreen.

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  8. I had forgotten that quote about illegitimacy. At the time I first read "Emma," I hadn't yet traced my geneology, and I accepted the family version that my great-grandfather had moved to America and neglected to send for his wife and children. But she was never his wife. My grandfather was illegitimate in a time and place (very Catholic Austria) where that mattered. It helped illuminate a great deal. I'm not naive; draft dodgers and deadbeat dads were always overrepresented among immigrants to America. -- Your blogfriend, Trollopian

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    1. Interesting family history - and most families have something tucked away. It wasn't so hard to get away then - and that features in a lot of fiction.

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  9. What a lot of frills and ruffles there are on the tea lady’s outfit! Imagine the work involved in ironing that lot, all with irons (made of iron, of course!) that were heated on range-type stoves or open fires. Have you ever talked about servants in Jane Austen and what we imagine their lives to have been like?

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    1. Christine Harding23 October 2025 at 14:45

      That was me, by the way. My socialist views on Classic Literature may have given me away! But I do love Jane Austen!

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    2. Have you read Longbourn? Jo Baker writes about the servants in P&P. I read it a decade ago, so it's not very clear anymore, but I remember enjoying it.
      Clare

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    3. Christine Harding23 October 2025 at 20:55

      Yes. I enjoyed it very much.

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    4. I enjoyed Longbourn very much - it wasn't what I was expecting, but I thought it was excellent. I didn't blog on it, but I did do a post on another book by the same author.
      I haven't written about servants in JA - she mentions them so little, they are omnipresent but given no character. Scarcely any of them have names. In a way it's a refreshing change from all those trusted maids in fiction, the twinkly-eyed servants supporting thier mistresses.
      Someone who just reread Pride & Prejudice pointed out to me the remarkable fact that there is a butler in the Bennet household - I don't think most of us are aware of that.

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    5. I remember a criticism by Hugh Laurie about Austen's not including servants in her books (although we know she did include a few)! I was quite annoyed with him. I suppose she did take servants pretty much for granted, but I don't think she thought of them as non-entities. I may be mis-remembering again, but wasn't Mr Woodhouse concerned with the health of his coachman?

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    6. I recall reading Longbourn and not liking it much - it didn’t ring true from the start that the Bennetts with their large house, comfortable income and need (at least on Mrs Bennett’s part) to keep their end up socially, would have a total of four servants for all the indoor and outdoor work. Admittedly they do add a footman, but only because Mr B wants to give a specific person a job, not because he’s realised that their staff is tiny.

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    7. Marty: why was Hugh Laurie commenting on this? JA has so little to say about servants, I think anyone could conclude they were not mentioned much and non-entities seems to describe them quite well. James the coachman is mentioned more than any other servant just about, though he never really appears as such, but that is part of Mr W's general absurdity: what he says about him makes no sense. Although the only kind thing Mr W is ever revealed as doing, just about, is getting James's daughter a job...
      Sovay: I am very impressed by your niche criticism that the book got the number of servants wrong!

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  10. What a great way to delve into Jane Austen and her writings. As we are going towards the end of the Austen year, I have read all of her novels agains (for the umpteenth time). I also really like Emma and have not changed my opinion of it. The only one that I have appreciated more than in the past is "Northanger Abbey". I guess I need to read it a couple more times to put it on my list of all time favourites.
    Thanks for your review. Here is one of mine:
    https://momobookblog.blogspot.com/2014/10/austen-jane-emma.html

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    1. Thank you for coming to comment, and I was most interested to read your excellent blogpost, which I strongly recommend to other readers. Having had all these thoughts about mothers in Emma, it was great to read someone else's thoughts on that very subject.
      I too like Northanger Abbey less than the rest, but as I say somewhere above, Catherine is the only heroine with nice sensible parents.
      I look forward to visiting your blog again.

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    2. Anne Elliot was in the same motherless position as Emma, but her companion/mother-figure was apparently stricter than Emma's. I wonder if Emma would have turned out like Anne with that kind of guidance, although I don't imagine Anne ever being as high-spirited as Emma.

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    3. I suppose I shouldn't have called Lady Russell a companion, she would take offense in a big way!

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    4. Now we need to start on the question of whether Lady Russell's advice to Anne was wrong: she ruined Anne's hopes for a long time, and it was only luck that it came right in the end. Just as much as Emma with Harriet - but with a longer half-life.
      Perhaps we should stick to Emma and park Persuasion for the future! I am interested to know what people think - how would it have been if Anne had married her beau when he first asked...? What's the alternate history? A future post...

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  11. I've been thinking about the comments on Emma persuading Harriet to refuse Robert Martin. Clearly that was a very wrong thing to do, and could have had life-long consequences for Harriet. But potentially, Emma taking Harriet under her wing saves her from another fate. She's a biddable, easily manipulated character and as an illegitimate girl with no protectors she would have been easy prey for the likes of Wickham - if he had chanced by from another novel!

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    1. Oh really interesting and perceptive! I hadn't thought of that, but you are very right, it is only too imaginable.

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